The Ordinary Road That Leads to the Saints

There comes a point in every journey when you realize that what seemed like a collection of unrelated steps has actually been taking you somewhere.

This is occasionally alarming.

It happens when you are driving through an unfamiliar town and suddenly discover that the road you have been following with great confidence has become a private driveway. It happens when assembling furniture and you discover, somewhere around Step 17, that the small wooden piece you confidently discarded at Step 3 was apparently structural. And it happens in the spiritual life when we suddenly realize that God has been quietly leading us somewhere while we were busy assuming that nothing particularly important was happening.

For these past days of Ordinary Time, that has been our theme.

The holiness of ordinary things.

The kitchen table.

The Wednesday morning.

The unfinished task.

The unexpected interruption.

The conversation we nearly avoided.

The kindness nobody noticed.

The prayer we whispered without much confidence that it went farther than the ceiling.

Again and again, we have returned to this simple truth: there really are no ordinary days. There are only days we have noticed and days we have not.

And now we are approaching All Saints.

Tomorrow we will begin thinking about saints, and there is a danger here.

The danger is that we imagine saints belong to an entirely different category of Christian existence.

We picture stained glass.

Halos.

Martyrdom.

Monasteries.

People standing serenely in paintings while holding objects that would cause most of us to telephone the police.

The saints can begin to look like Christianity’s professional division while the rest of us are playing recreationally on Thursday evenings.

But that is not how sainthood begins.

Sainthood begins in ordinary time.

It begins when somebody gets out of bed and decides, once again, to trust God.

It begins when someone forgives.

When someone shares.

When someone notices the lonely person.

When someone tells the truth even though a lie would be considerably more convenient.

When someone chooses mercy over resentment.

When someone says a prayer before beginning a difficult day.

When someone discovers that following Jesus is less about achieving spiritual greatness and more about allowing love to shape the next small decision.

The saints were not born standing on pedestals.

They had kitchens.

They had laundry.

They had difficult relatives.

They misplaced things.

They became tired.

They worried.

They probably had meetings that could have been emails.

They lived ordinary lives in ordinary places, and somewhere in the middle of all that ordinary living, they kept making room for God.

That is holiness.

Not perfection.

Availability.

Perhaps that is the lesson Ordinary Time has been trying to teach us all along.

God does not wait for the extraordinary moment.

God works with Tuesday.

God works with the grocery store and the parish meeting and the traffic light and the hospital waiting room.

God works with casseroles and conversations.

God works with the five minutes before the next appointment.

God works with the person standing directly in front of us.

And, rather astonishingly, God works with us.

Christian faith has sometimes made holiness sound like a mountain climbed by particularly athletic souls.

Jesus makes it sound much more like a road.

Follow me.

One step.

Then another.

Love God.

Love your neighbour.

Forgive.

Feed.

Welcome.

Pray.

Begin again.

And somewhere along that road, ordinary disciples begin looking remarkably like saints.

Most of them probably never notice.

Perhaps that is part of the point.

Holiness rarely announces itself.

It does not enter the room accompanied by trumpets.

Usually it is wearing an apron.

Or work boots.

Or pyjamas at two o’clock in the morning while sitting beside someone who cannot sleep.

Holiness is often simply love that stayed.

And perhaps this is where our journey through these ordinary days was always leading.

Tomorrow we will begin telling stories about saints. Some will have names recognized throughout the Church. Some will have feast days and churches named after them. Some lived centuries ago.

But before we meet them, perhaps we should remember something important.

The distance between an ordinary Christian and a saint is not nearly as great as we imagine.

It is simply the distance between this moment and the next faithful thing.

That is all any saint was ever given.

One day.

One neighbour.

One decision.

One opportunity to love.

Exactly the same things God has placed into our hands today.

So perhaps we should stop waiting for the extraordinary life.

This one will do.

This kitchen.

This parish.

This family.

This neighbourhood.

This Tuesday.

This slightly untidy, frequently interrupted, occasionally ridiculous life.

God has never required better material.

And if we offer it to God—ordinary moment after ordinary moment—grace may accomplish considerably more with it than we ever imagined.

After all, that is how saints are made.

Not somewhere else.

Not someday.

Here.

Now.

In Ordinary Time.

And perhaps the great secret of Ordinary Time is that it was never ordinary at all.

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Companion Prayer

God of ordinary days,

Thank you for meeting us in kitchens and workplaces, conversations and interruptions, quiet prayers and unnoticed acts of love.

Teach us not to wait for extraordinary lives before offering ourselves to you. Give us grace to recognize the holy possibilities already placed before us: one neighbour to love, one kindness to offer, one wrong to forgive, one faithful step to take.

As we turn our attention toward the saints, remind us that they too learned holiness one ordinary day at a time.

Take this ordinary life of ours, Lord, and make it beautiful with your grace.

Amen.

God Is Not Waiting for You to Become More Impressive

There is a peculiar temptation in the Christian life to imagine that God is waiting for us to become a slightly improved version of ourselves.

Not perfect, perhaps. We know enough theology to realize that perfection may be setting the bar inconveniently high. But surely more organized. More prayerful. More patient. Less inclined to mutter things under our breath while trying to open packaging apparently designed to survive the Second Coming.

We imagine that somewhere just beyond our present selves there is a person whom God could really use.

That person gets up early to pray.

That person remembers everyone’s birthday.

That person never becomes irritated in traffic.

That person has read the entire Bible, including Leviticus, without once wondering whether a brief lie-down might be spiritually beneficial.

And so we quietly make a bargain with God.

When I become that person, then I will be ready.

Ordinary Time has very little patience for such nonsense.

God Seems Quite Fond of Ordinary People

One of the most encouraging things about Scripture is the astonishingly unimpressive collection of people God chooses.

Abraham doubts.

Jacob schemes.

Moses makes excuses.

David makes some spectacularly poor decisions.

Jonah runs away.

Peter speaks before thinking, which would eventually have made him an excellent candidate for social media.

Thomas questions.

Martha worries.

Paul has a temper.

And the disciples, collectively, spend a remarkable amount of time standing beside Jesus while completely misunderstanding what Jesus has just said.

Yet God works through them.

Not through the improved versions of them.

Through them.

This is one of grace’s most beautiful and unsettling truths: God does not merely love the person you might eventually become.

God loves the person reading these words now.

Holiness Is Not Self-Improvement

As All Saints approaches, it is worth remembering this because Christians can sometimes turn sainthood into a kind of ecclesiastical achievement award.

We look at saints through stained glass.

There they stand, beautifully illuminated, apparently never having misplaced their keys or become annoyed because someone put an empty milk carton back into the refrigerator.

But the saints were human beings.

They became tired.

They became discouraged.

Some were impatient.

Some were difficult.

Some undoubtedly had habits that caused their friends to exchange meaningful glances across the room.

Holiness did not mean becoming less human.

It meant allowing more and more of their humanity to become available to God.

That is quite different.

Christian faith is not fundamentally a programme of self-improvement. It is a life of surrender.

The question is not:

How can I become impressive enough for God?

The question is:

How much of the person I already am am I willing to place in God’s hands?

God Works With What Is Actually Here

We tend to think God needs better raw material.

God apparently disagrees.

God takes fishermen and makes apostles.

God takes a frightened young woman in Nazareth and begins the Incarnation.

God takes five loaves and two fish and feeds a crowd.

God takes water and makes wine.

God takes a cross—the very symbol of human cruelty—and makes it the place from which resurrection begins.

There seems to be a pattern here.

God does not wait for ideal circumstances.

God works with what is available.

Which means that your ordinary Tuesday is available.

Your kitchen table is available.

Your tiredness is available.

Your kindness is available.

Your mistakes are available.

Your questions are available.

Even the parts of your life that feel unfinished are available.

Perhaps especially those.

The Spiritual Life Begins With “Here”

We spend an extraordinary amount of energy wishing we were somewhere else.

When life becomes quieter.

When work settles down.

When the children grow older.

When retirement arrives.

When the difficult situation resolves itself.

When we finally establish the disciplined prayer life we have been intending to establish since approximately 1997.

Then, we imagine, the spiritual life will begin properly.

But God keeps appearing in the present tense.

Here.

This kitchen.

This family.

This congregation.

This body.

This grief.

This joy.

This October morning.

This life.

The spiritual life begins when we stop presenting God with the person we intend someday to become and begin offering God the person who actually showed up this morning.

Perhaps That Is What Saints Learned

Maybe the saints were not people who finally became impressive.

Maybe they were people who finally stopped trying to be.

They discovered that grace was not God’s reward for spiritual achievement.

Grace was where everything started.

They allowed themselves to be loved before they had finished becoming lovable.

They allowed themselves to be called before they felt qualified.

They allowed themselves to serve before they had solved every question.

And slowly, almost imperceptibly, grace did its work.

That may be why saints often appear extraordinary only in retrospect.

At the time, they were probably simply doing the next faithful thing.

Feeding someone.

Praying.

Forgiving.

Visiting.

Listening.

Speaking when silence would have been easier.

Remaining when leaving would have been more convenient.

Loving the person standing in front of them.

Holiness accumulates quietly.

And So Does Grace

Most of us will probably never have statues made of us.

This is likely good news, particularly for those of us whose best side remains the subject of ongoing theological investigation.

But we can become saints.

Not because we have finally made ourselves worthy of God.

Because God has already decided that ordinary human lives are precisely where grace intends to live.

So perhaps today you do not need to become more impressive.

Perhaps you do not need a five-year spiritual development plan.

Perhaps you do not need to wait until you are wiser, calmer, thinner, holier, better organized, or finally caught up on the laundry.

Perhaps the prayer for today is considerably simpler:

Here I am, Lord.

Not the person I wish I were.

Not the person I may someday become.

Just me.

Here.

Now.

And astonishingly, throughout Scripture and throughout the lives of the saints, that has always been enough for God to begin.

“God is not waiting for the improved version of you. Grace has already begun its work with the person who showed up today.”

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Companion Prayer

Here I Am, Lord

Gracious God,

I do not need to become more impressive for you to love me.

You work with the life I actually have—my joys, my questions, my weariness, my mistakes, and my hopes.

Teach me to stop waiting for a better version of myself and to offer you the person who is here today.

Make me more available to your grace in the ordinary moments of this day. Help me to recognize holiness not as something I must achieve, but as the quiet work of your Spirit within me.

Give me courage to do the next faithful thing: to love, to listen, to forgive, to serve, and to trust.

Here I am, Lord—not finished, not perfect, but yours.

And let that be enough for grace to begin again.

Amen.

When God Is Quietly Mending Things

There are certain repairs in life that announce themselves with considerable drama.

A plumber arrives carrying enough equipment to suggest that he intends either to repair the kitchen sink or excavate a small portion of Mesopotamia. A roofer appears with ladders, trucks, compressors, and three men who spend the first twenty minutes looking thoughtfully at the sky. A mechanic telephones and begins the conversation with the phrase, “Well, we found the problem,” which is rarely followed by anything financially encouraging.

Repair can be noisy.

But some of the most important mending happens quietly.

And I am beginning to suspect that this is one of the great lessons of Ordinary Time.

We have come through Thanksgiving. All Saints is still somewhere ahead of us. The autumn leaves are beginning their annual theological demonstration that something can be extraordinarily beautiful while simultaneously falling apart.

And here we are.

Ordinary Time.

No angels appearing to shepherds.

No Magi crossing deserts.

No palms waving.

No empty tomb surrounded by astonished disciples.

Just ordinary days.

Coffee. Laundry. Meetings. Groceries. Emails. Appointments. Dinner. Dishes.

And God quietly mending things.

We Usually Notice the Breaking

Human beings are remarkably good at noticing what is broken.

Give us a beautiful white wall and we will immediately notice the tiny scratch near the baseboard.

Give us a wonderful day and one irritating conversation, and guess which one we will rehearse while brushing our teeth that evening?

Give us twenty encouraging comments and one criticism, and the criticism will move into our imagination, unpack its luggage, rearrange the furniture, and apparently sign a twelve-month lease.

We notice what is broken.

Perhaps because broken things demand attention.

But grace often works differently.

Grace can be remarkably quiet.

Jesus once compared the kingdom of God to mustard seeds, yeast, growing crops, hidden treasure.

Small things.

Hidden things.

Things happening beneath the surface.

The kingdom, apparently, does not always arrive accompanied by a brass band.

Sometimes God simply begins mending something.

The Repairs We Cannot Yet See

There are wounds in our lives that do not disappear quickly.

Grief does not obey schedules.

Relationships do not heal because we have decided that sufficient time has passed.

Forgiveness does not erase memory.

Disappointment does not vanish because someone quotes an encouraging Bible verse at us, however enthusiastically.

Some things take time.

And perhaps one of the gentlest truths of Christian faith is this:

God is willing to take the time.

We often want resurrection by Thursday.

God sometimes seems content to begin with one small green shoot.

We want the entire relationship restored.

God begins with one honest conversation.

We want the grief gone.

God gives us one morning when we suddenly realize that we have laughed again.

We want certainty.

God gives us enough light for the next few steps.

We want the whole garment restored.

God begins stitching one torn edge.

This can be frustrating.

I would personally prefer divine grace to operate rather like one of those home-renovation television programmes in which an entire house is transformed between two commercial breaks.

Apparently sanctification has not adopted this production schedule.

The Ministry of Small Repairs

Perhaps there is also something here about our own calling.

We live in a world fascinated by large solutions.

Large programmes.

Large announcements.

Large strategies.

Large promises.

The Church occasionally catches this enthusiasm and begins believing that the Kingdom of God is perpetually awaiting the arrival of our latest five-year strategic plan.

Plans have their place.

But Jesus also spent an extraordinary amount of time doing very small things.

He noticed people.

He touched people others avoided.

He ate with people who were lonely.

He listened.

He asked questions.

He restored dignity.

He forgave.

He stopped beside people everyone else had learned to walk past.

Small repairs.

One human life at a time.

Perhaps Christian discipleship is often exactly that.

You telephone someone who has been alone.

You apologize.

You forgive.

You make room at the table.

You bring dinner.

You listen without immediately explaining how the other person should feel.

You speak kindly to someone who has become accustomed to being treated as an inconvenience.

None of these things will make the evening news.

But somewhere a little piece of the world has been mended.

The Holy Workbench

There is an old temptation in Christianity to imagine that God is primarily interested in extracting us from this messy world.

But the Gospel tells a different story.

God enters the mess.

God takes flesh.

God walks dusty roads.

God eats ordinary meals.

God touches wounds.

And ultimately God promises not the abandonment of creation but its renewal.

“Behold, I make all things new.”

Not: “Behold, I throw everything away and start again.”

There is a difference.

God is a mender.

Which means that the places in our lives that seem frayed, cracked, bruised, disappointed or unfinished may not be evidence that God has abandoned the project.

They may be precisely where God is working.

Quietly.

Patiently.

Perhaps with the divine equivalent of glue, clamps, sandpaper and the firm instruction not to touch anything until morning.

Ordinary Time Is Repair Time

That may be one reason I have grown increasingly fond of these ordinary days between Thanksgiving and All Saints.

They ask very little of us liturgically.

There is no frantic preparation.

No enormous feast approaching tomorrow morning.

No complicated choreography involving candles, palms or multiple bookmarks in the service book.

There is simply time.

Time to notice.

Time to listen.

Time to let God work on things we have been too busy to examine.

And perhaps time to participate in the mending ourselves.

There may be someone who needs a telephone call.

There may be an apology that has been waiting.

There may be a kindness we have postponed.

There may be some neglected corner of our own soul that needs compassion rather than criticism.

There may even be something we thought was permanently broken that is already beginning, almost imperceptibly, to heal.

Look Closely

So today, look closely.

Not only at what is broken.

Look for what is being mended.

Look for the relationship where conversation has begun again.

Look for the grief that no longer occupies every room of the heart.

Look for the courage that was not there six months ago.

Look for the person who is slowly becoming kinder.

Look for the community learning to listen.

Look for the tiny green shoot pushing through what looked like dead ground.

These things rarely announce themselves.

Grace seldom sends a press release.

But God is working.

And perhaps one of the spiritual disciplines of Ordinary Time is simply learning to notice the sound of divine repair:

a conversation,

a kindness,

a forgiveness,

a laugh returning after sorrow,

a door opening,

a wound closing,

a heart softening.

Stitch by stitch.

Grace by grace.

God is quietly mending the world.

And, wonderfully enough, God keeps inviting ordinary people like us to hold the pieces together while the glue dries.

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Companion Prayer

God of patient grace,
you are at work in places
we have already decided are broken beyond repair.

Teach us to notice
the quiet work of your hands:

the wound slowly healing,
the relationship beginning again,
the courage quietly returning,
the grief becoming gentler,
the heart learning once more to hope.

When we demand instant answers,
give us patience for the slow work of grace.

When we see only what is broken,
give us eyes to recognize what you are already mending.

And when you place within our reach
some small piece of your wounded world,
give us the tenderness to hold it carefully,
the courage to help repair it,
and the wisdom to know
that we do not have to fix everything ourselves.

Stitch together what has been torn.
Restore what has been wounded.
Renew what has grown weary.

And make us willing partners
in your quiet work of making all things new—

one kindness,
one forgiveness,
one conversation,
one small act of love at a time.

Through Jesus Christ,
in whom even the wounds of the world
are gathered into resurrection.

Amen.

God Is Probably in the Laundry: The Holiness of Doing It Again

There is a particular moment in adult life when one realizes that the laundry is never actually finished.

This can be quite a theological crisis.

You wash it. You dry it. You fold it. You put it away. You stand for perhaps eleven triumphant minutes before an empty laundry basket, feeling that civilization has been restored and that your affairs are finally in order.

Then you change your socks.

And it begins again.

Much of life is like this.

The dishes return.

The garbage fills.

The lawn grows.

The email inbox reproduces overnight by some mysterious process that science has not yet adequately explained.

The groceries we purchased on Thursday have somehow disappeared by Tuesday, despite the fact that we distinctly remember spending enough money on them to provision a small monastery through Lent.

And morning comes again.

The alarm rings again.

Breakfast needs making again.

Someone needs listening to again.

Someone needs forgiving again.

We need praying for again.

Ordinary Time is wonderfully suited to this sort of life because Ordinary Time is not terribly interested in fireworks.

It is interested in faithfulness.

The Spiritual Life Is Surprisingly Repetitive

We sometimes imagine that spiritual maturity consists of accumulating increasingly dramatic experiences of God.

There may indeed be dramatic moments.

There are mountaintops.

There are conversions.

There are moments when Scripture suddenly opens before us and we know, with startling clarity, that God has spoken.

There are moments at the altar when grace feels almost tangible.

Treasure them.

But most Christian life does not happen there.

Most Christian life happens on Tuesday.

And then, rather inconveniently, it happens again on Wednesday.

Jesus understood this.

He taught his disciples to pray for daily bread.

Not lifetime bread.

Not a warehouse full of bread sufficient to guarantee that we would never again have to depend upon anybody.

Daily bread.

Enough grace for today.

Tomorrow we ask again.

There is something wonderfully humbling about that.

We would prefer spiritual achievement.

God seems rather fond of spiritual dependence.

Again Is Not the Same as Failure

Sometimes we become discouraged because we find ourselves dealing with something we thought we had already dealt with.

The worry returns.

The impatience returns.

The grief returns.

The temptation returns.

The difficult relationship remains difficult.

We think, “Surely I should be past this by now.”

Perhaps.

But perhaps holiness is not always about getting past things.

Sometimes holiness is learning how to meet the same thing differently.

You may encounter the same irritating person for the forty-seventh time, but perhaps this time you listen a little longer.

You may face the same anxiety, but perhaps this time you remember to pray before allowing your imagination to organize the apocalypse.

You may carry the same grief, but discover that today you can carry it without believing that grief is all you carry.

Grace often works through repetition.

Not because God has run out of ideas.

Because love requires practice.

The Saints Had Tuesdays Too

As All Saints approaches, the Church begins turning our attention toward those countless women and men whose lives have borne witness to Christ.

We often remember them at their most impressive.

We remember Francis embracing poverty.

We remember Teresa praying.

We remember Julian contemplating divine love.

We remember courageous martyrs, tireless missionaries, faithful reformers and extraordinary servants.

We seldom imagine them looking for a missing sock.

But surely they did the equivalent.

They had ordinary mornings.

They had chores.

They became tired.

They probably had conversations they wished they had handled differently.

They woke up occasionally in bad moods.

Some of them undoubtedly sat through meetings that could have been letters.

They became holy not because every moment of their lives was extraordinary.

They became holy because they kept giving their ordinary moments to God.

Again.

And again.

And again.

Faithfulness Is Built from Small Returns

There is a beautiful rhythm at the heart of Christian worship.

We return.

Sunday comes and we gather again.

We hear Scripture again.

We confess again.

We pray again.

We come to the table again.

Bread.

Wine.

Thanksgiving.

Grace.

And then we are sent back into the world where, quite predictably, somebody has left dishes in the sink.

This is not an interruption of the spiritual life.

This is the spiritual life.

The Eucharist teaches us to recognize what God is doing everywhere else.

Ordinary things are taken.

Blessed.

Broken.

Shared.

And suddenly we begin to suspect that God has been working with ordinary things all along.

Including us.

Perhaps Holiness Looks Like Showing Up

There are days when faith feels strong.

There are days when prayer seems natural.

There are days when generosity comes easily and patience seems almost effortless.

Enjoy those days.

There are others when prayer feels like pushing a wheelbarrow uphill through wet cement.

There are mornings when loving one’s neighbour seems an admirable Christian principle best attempted by somebody else.

There are days when the most spiritually mature thing we manage is simply to show up.

But showing up matters.

Praying again matters.

Forgiving again matters.

Beginning again matters.

Returning to kindness matters.

Returning to hope matters.

Returning to Christ matters.

Perhaps this is one of the great secrets of the saints.

They were not people who never wandered.

They were people who learned the road home.

God Is in the Again

So tomorrow morning the kettle will boil again.

The bed will need making again.

The dog will need walking again.

The church doors will need unlocking again.

Someone will need encouragement again.

Someone will need mercy again.

And somewhere, inevitably, another basket of laundry will appear.

Do not despise these repetitions.

Grace may be hiding among them.

Because the Kingdom of God is not built only through spectacular acts of courage.

Sometimes it is built by making breakfast.

Sometimes by answering the telephone.

Sometimes by keeping a promise.

Sometimes by saying, “I forgive you.”

Sometimes by saying, “I’m sorry.”

Sometimes by getting up tomorrow morning and deciding, once again, to live as though love really is the deepest truth about the universe.

The saints did not become saints in a single magnificent afternoon.

They became saints through thousands of ordinary mornings offered to God.

And perhaps that is encouraging.

Because tomorrow morning is coming.

And by the grace of God, we get to try again.

Holiness may be less about doing something extraordinary once, and more about offering the ordinary to God again and again.

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A Prayer for Ordinary Faithfulness

Faithful God,
meet me again in the ordinary things.

When the work is repetitive,
when prayer feels familiar,
when yesterday’s worries return
and today’s responsibilities seem remarkably similar to yesterday’s,
help me not to despise the ordinary.

Give me grace to begin again,
patience to love again,
courage to forgive again,
and faith to trust you again.

Take the small things I offer today
and make them holy through your love.

Teach me the quiet faithfulness of the saints,
until all my ordinary days
become an offering of praise.

Through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Amen.

The Holiness of Showing Up: Why God Keeps Meeting Us in the Same Old Places

There is a great deal to be said for showing up.

This is not, admittedly, one of the more glamorous spiritual disciplines.

Nobody has ever produced a glossy coffee-table book called Showing Up: Photographs of People Who Arrived When They Said They Would. There are very few stained-glass windows depicting someone putting on their coat because it is time to go to church. And I have yet to see a religious medal commemorating the heroic Christian virtue of getting out of bed when the alarm rings.

We prefer our spirituality with a little more drama.

We like conversion experiences. Mountaintops. Burning bushes. Visions in the night. Voices from heaven. Seas dramatically parting at precisely the right moment.

But most of the Christian life happens nowhere near a burning bush.

Most of it happens in kitchens.

And offices.

And hospital rooms.

And parish halls.

And grocery stores.

And in that mysterious place beside the front door where you were absolutely certain you left your keys.

Ordinary Time has a way of reminding us of this.

The great celebrations of Thanksgiving are behind us. All Saints is approaching, but it has not yet arrived. The trees are losing their leaves. The daylight is quietly packing its bags and leaving earlier every afternoon. Life settles again into its familiar rhythms.

And perhaps that is exactly where God wants to meet us.

The Spiritual Life Is Mostly Repetition

There is something wonderfully repetitive about Christianity.

We pray the same prayers.

We hear the same Scriptures.

We gather around the same table.

We say the same words.

“The Lord be with you.”

“And also with you.”

We confess our sins again, despite having confessed them quite sincerely last week.

We receive the bread and wine again.

We say Amen again.

Then we go home and attempt, with varying degrees of success, to live like people who meant what we just said.

And the following Sunday we come back and do it all again.

From the outside, this might look terribly inefficient.

Surely after two thousand years we ought to have finished by now.

But perhaps repetition is not evidence that Christianity has failed.

Perhaps repetition is how Christianity works.

Love itself is repetitive.

You do not tell someone you love them once and then consider the matter permanently settled.

You say it again.

You show it again.

You forgive again.

You listen again.

You make supper again.

You wash the dishes again, despite the deeply suspicious fact that everyone in the household appears determined to make them dirty again immediately.

Love lives by repetition.

So does faith.

God Seems Rather Fond of Ordinary Places

One of the persistent surprises of Scripture is how often God appears in places where nobody has prepared adequately for the occasion.

Moses is tending sheep.

Samuel is trying to sleep.

David is out in a field.

Mary is at home.

Peter is fishing.

The disciples are walking along a road.

The risen Christ appears beside a lake and cooks breakfast.

Apparently heaven is considerably less concerned with impressive venues than we are.

God keeps appearing in ordinary places.

Which means we may have spent far too much time waiting for extraordinary circumstances.

We imagine that when life becomes less complicated, we will pray more faithfully.

When work settles down, we will become more attentive.

When the family crisis passes, we will become more generous.

When we finally get ourselves organized, we will become the people God intended us to be.

This is a dangerous spiritual fantasy because life has shown remarkably little interest in becoming less complicated.

There is always another appointment.

Another bill.

Another disagreement.

Another laundry basket.

Another email beginning with the ominous phrase, “Just following up…”

If God intends to wait until our lives are perfectly arranged before meeting us, God may be waiting a very long time.

Fortunately, God appears to have made other arrangements.

God meets us now.

Faithfulness Is Usually Smaller Than We Imagine

We sometimes imagine faithfulness as something heroic.

And occasionally it is.

There are moments when discipleship demands courage that costs us something significant.

But most faithfulness is much smaller.

It is making the telephone call.

Visiting the person who is lonely.

Saying the prayer even when we do not particularly feel like praying.

Making room at the table.

Offering forgiveness before resentment becomes furniture.

Choosing kindness when sarcasm would have been considerably more entertaining.

Faithfulness often looks like doing the next loving thing.

Then doing another.

Then another.

This may not seem particularly impressive.

But neither does planting a seed.

The Kingdom of God, Jesus tells us, seems rather fond of seeds.

Small things placed faithfully into the earth.

Things that disappear before they grow.

Things that require patience.

Things whose transformation happens mostly where nobody can see it.

Perhaps much of holiness works the same way.

The Saints Mostly Kept Showing Up

All Saints Day is coming.

Soon we will remember the great cloud of witnesses who have gone before us.

We may imagine saints as people whose spiritual lives possessed a clarity ours does not.

But saints were human beings.

They became tired.

They became discouraged.

They occasionally misunderstood things.

They probably had mornings when prayer felt dry and afternoons when patience disappeared somewhere shortly after lunch.

Their holiness was not that they never struggled.

Their holiness was that they kept turning toward God.

Again.

And again.

And again.

Perhaps sainthood is not primarily about extraordinary spiritual achievement.

Perhaps it is about a lifetime of returning.

Returning to prayer.

Returning to mercy.

Returning to the table.

Returning to hope.

Returning to Christ.

There is something profoundly encouraging about that.

Because most of us can manage returning.

Just Come Back Tomorrow

There will be days when your prayers feel profound.

There will also be days when your prayers consist mostly of staring out the window while attempting to remember what you were praying about.

There will be Sundays when worship lifts your heart.

There will be Sundays when you find yourself wondering whether the person three pews ahead has always had that coat.

There will be days when you feel wonderfully close to God.

And days when God seems to have stepped out briefly without leaving a forwarding address.

Keep showing up.

Not because showing up earns God’s love.

Grace has never operated on an attendance sheet.

Show up because love grows through presence.

Friendship grows through presence.

Community grows through presence.

Faith grows through presence.

And somewhere in the ordinary repetition of prayer and meals and conversations and Eucharists and dishes and errands and autumn mornings, something holy is happening.

We may not notice it immediately.

Grace is often rather discreet.

But perhaps one day we will look back and discover that while we thought we were merely showing up, God was quietly shaping us.

Prayer by prayer.

Meal by meal.

Sunday by Sunday.

Act of kindness by act of kindness.

Until the ordinary life we were living became the place where holiness had been growing all along.

And perhaps that is one of the quiet secrets of Ordinary Time.

God does not always ask us to do something extraordinary.

Sometimes God simply asks us to come back tomorrow.

And, wonderfully, God promises to be there too.

“Holiness may be less about doing extraordinary things and more about returning faithfully to ordinary things with love.”

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Companion Prayer

Faithful God,

Meet us in the ordinary places of our lives. Give us grace to keep showing up, courage to begin again, and eyes to recognize your presence in small acts of love and faithfulness. When we grow weary, remind us that holiness is often formed quietly—in returning, forgiving, serving, praying, and loving again.

Help us to trust that wherever love calls us to return, you are already there.

Amen.

The Holy Art of Not Getting Everything Done

There is something deeply satisfying about a list.

I am particularly fond of lists because they create the impression that life is under control.

You write down six things in the morning, place a small box beside each one, and then proceed through the day with the serene confidence of a person who believes the universe can be managed with a ballpoint pen.

Occasionally this even works.

You answer the email.

You make the telephone call.

You pick up the groceries.

You return the library book that has been sitting beside the front door for three weeks specifically so that you would remember to return it.

And then, with considerable ceremony, you place a checkmark beside each accomplishment.

There are few pleasures quite so immediate.

Unfortunately, somewhere around item four, life usually becomes involved.

Someone telephones.

A meeting runs long.

The car develops an interesting new noise.

The dog is sick.

A friend needs to talk.

The computer decides that precisely now would be an excellent time to install seventeen updates.

And by supper, the list that began the morning as a declaration of human competence has become documentary evidence for the prosecution.

Three boxes remain unchecked.

We have not finished.

And we do not like unfinished things.

The Religion of Getting Things Done

We live in a culture that admires completion.

Projects should be finished.

Goals should be achieved.

Inboxes should apparently reach something called “zero,” although I have always regarded Inbox Zero as one of those mythical places like Atlantis or a church meeting that ends ten minutes early.

Even our language reveals the expectation.

We ask one another, “What did you get done today?”

Rarely does someone ask:

“Where did you notice grace today?”

Or:

“Who needed you today?”

Or:

“Did anything beautiful interrupt your schedule?”

Productivity is useful, of course. Things genuinely need doing. Laundry cannot survive indefinitely on theological reflection. Eventually someone has to put it in the washing machine.

But trouble begins when productivity quietly becomes identity.

I accomplished something, therefore I matter.

I finished something, therefore the day was worthwhile.

I was useful, therefore I am valuable.

And somewhere beneath all of that is the exhausting suspicion that perhaps God is keeping a list too.

Jesus Was Surprisingly Interruptible

One of the remarkable things about Jesus in the Gospels is how often his plans are interrupted.

He is walking somewhere when someone calls out.

He is teaching when somebody arrives.

He is travelling when a sick person needs attention.

He is attempting to get away for some rest when an entire crowd appears.

If I had been organizing Jesus’ ministry, I would have suggested a better appointment system.

Perhaps colour-coded.

Possibly with an administrative assistant.

Certainly with clearly posted office hours.

But Jesus seems remarkably unconcerned about the efficiency of the schedule.

Again and again, the interruption becomes the ministry.

The person who was not on the agenda becomes the person standing directly in front of him.

And Jesus notices.

That may be one of the quiet disciplines of Christian life: learning that the unexpected thing is not necessarily preventing us from doing God’s work.

Sometimes the unexpected thing is God’s work.

Ordinary Time Is Full of Unfinished Things

These autumn days between Thanksgiving and All Saints are full of unfinishedness.

The garden is nearly finished but not quite.

Some leaves have fallen; others remain stubbornly attached to the trees as though they have not received the memorandum.

The daylight is shortening.

Winter is coming, but autumn has not yet packed its bags.

The Church calls this Ordinary Time.

And perhaps Ordinary Time teaches us something about living faithfully in the middle.

Most of life is lived there.

Between beginning and completion.

Between prayer and answer.

Between planting and harvest.

Between diagnosis and recovery.

Between disagreement and reconciliation.

Between grief and whatever healing eventually becomes.

Between the person we once were and the person God is still creating.

We are unfinished people living unfinished lives in an unfinished world.

And remarkably, God does not appear embarrassed by this.

God Seems Quite Comfortable With Process

Scripture begins with creation unfolding.

Abraham begins walking without knowing exactly where the journey will lead.

Israel spends forty years getting somewhere that might have looked considerably closer on a map.

The disciples misunderstand Jesus repeatedly.

Peter takes approximately three years to learn lessons he will later forget in a courtyard.

Paul writes to churches that are very clearly works in progress.

And the Kingdom of God itself is described as something growing — seed becoming plant, yeast working through dough, a tiny beginning moving toward something larger.

God seems rather fond of process.

We prefer instant holiness.

God seems content with growth.

We would like transformation delivered by Tuesday afternoon.

God works through seasons.

Perhaps that is because grace is not simply interested in getting us somewhere.

Grace is forming us while we travel.

The Unchecked Box

So perhaps there is a small spiritual practice available to us at the end of an ordinary day.

Look at the things you did not finish.

The email unanswered.

The cupboard still untidy.

The project half-completed.

The telephone call postponed until tomorrow.

And instead of allowing those things to become evidence that the day somehow failed, simply say:

Enough.

Not because the work does not matter.

Not because responsibility is unimportant.

But because you are not the Messiah.

That position has already been filled.

And this is very good news.

The world will continue while you sleep.

God will remain awake.

Grace will continue working in places you cannot see.

Seeds will grow underground.

Hearts will change slowly.

Mercies will arrive quietly.

And tomorrow morning there will undoubtedly be another list.

Before All Saints

Perhaps that is worth remembering as we move toward All Saints.

The saints were not people who managed to finish themselves.

They were people who learned to trust God with their unfinishedness.

They stumbled.

They doubted.

They occasionally made spectacular mistakes.

Some were undoubtedly difficult to live with.

A few probably left things lying around.

But somewhere in their wonderfully imperfect lives, they discovered that holiness was not the achievement of flawless human beings.

It was the patient work of grace.

And that same grace is working in us.

Even today.

Even when the list remains unfinished.

Even when the prayer remains unanswered.

Even when we are still becoming the people we hoped we would already be.

Perhaps the holiest thing you can do tonight is not squeeze one more accomplishment out of the day.

Perhaps it is simply to stop.

Put down the pen.

Leave one box unchecked.

Say your prayers.

Turn off the light.

And trust that the God who has begun a good work in you has not misplaced the project.

After all, tomorrow is another ordinary day.

And ordinary days, as we are discovering, are precisely where God seems to do some of God’s finest work.

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Companion Prayer

God of unfinished lives and patient grace,

teach me to know when enough is enough.

When the list remains unfinished,
when plans are interrupted,
and when I have not accomplished all I intended,
remind me that my worth is not measured
by what I manage to complete.

Give me grace to notice the holy interruptions,
wisdom to do faithfully what is mine to do,
and humility to leave the rest in your hands.

Keep forming me through these ordinary days,
and help me trust that what remains unfinished in me
is still held within your patient love.

Tonight, let me put down the pen,
release what I cannot complete,
and rest in the promise
that you are still at work.

Amen.

The Holiness of Things That Need Doing

There are certain moments in life when one feels remarkably close to God.

Standing beside a quiet lake at sunrise.

Hearing a beloved hymn sung beautifully.

Receiving bread and wine at the altar.

Watching autumn sunlight come through the trees.

And then there are other moments.

Like discovering that the garbage should have gone to the curb twenty minutes ago.

Or standing in the kitchen wondering why every horizontal surface has somehow acquired three objects that do not belong there.

Or opening the laundry basket and discovering that, although you distinctly remember doing laundry quite recently, the clothes have apparently been reproducing.

These moments rarely make it into books about spirituality.

Perhaps they should.

Because one of the great discoveries of the Christian life is that God does not confine holiness to the obviously holy places.

God is quite capable of meeting us beside the laundry basket.

The Spirituality of Getting On With It

We live in a culture that is fascinated with extraordinary things.

Extraordinary experiences.

Extraordinary achievements.

Extraordinary people.

Even the Church occasionally falls into this habit. We tell the stories of saints who crossed oceans, founded monasteries, confronted kings, cared for thousands, and occasionally got themselves martyred in circumstances that make attending the parish council meeting seem comparatively manageable.

And these stories matter.

But most Christian lives are not lived on that scale.

Most of us will spend considerably more time washing dishes than confronting emperors.

We will answer emails.

Make lunches.

Pay bills.

Rake leaves.

Drive someone to an appointment.

Change light bulbs.

Sit beside someone who is lonely.

Make soup.

Take the garbage out.

And perhaps the great spiritual danger is imagining that these things happen in the intervals between the important parts of life.

They don’t.

They are life.

And therefore they are precisely the places where God intends to meet us.

Jesus Knew About Ordinary Things

One of the things I love about Jesus is how thoroughly his teaching is filled with everyday life.

Bread.

Seeds.

Coins.

Fishing nets.

Sheep.

Vineyards.

Dinner tables.

Children.

Housework.

Jesus apparently believed that the Kingdom of God could be explained using things people encountered before lunchtime.

That should tell us something.

The Kingdom of God is not merely waiting for us in some distant spiritual realm.

It is hidden among ordinary things.

A seed in the ground.

Bread on the table.

A neighbour at the door.

A person who needs mercy.

A task that needs doing.

Perhaps holiness is not always about escaping ordinary life.

Perhaps holiness is learning to inhabit ordinary life differently.

The Ministry Nobody Applauds

There is an enormous amount of goodness in this world that receives absolutely no applause.

Someone remembers to call an elderly neighbour.

Someone stays late to put the chairs away.

Someone prepares food for a family going through a difficult week.

Someone quietly cleans the church kitchen after everyone else has gone home.

Someone notices that the toilet paper roll is empty and—without forming a committee, commissioning a feasibility study, or announcing the achievement on Facebook—simply replaces it.

This last example may represent an advanced stage of Christian maturity.

Much of the Kingdom of God is built this way.

Quietly.

Faithfully.

Without recognition.

Jesus once said that whoever is faithful in very little is faithful also in much.

We tend to admire the “much.”

God seems remarkably interested in the “little.”

Because little acts accumulate.

A kindness here.

A prayer there.

A casserole delivered.

A door held open.

A difficult conversation handled gently.

A person forgiven.

A lonely person remembered.

None of these things will make the evening news.

But together they begin to look suspiciously like the Kingdom of God.

Ordinary Time Is Trying to Teach Us Something

Perhaps this is one reason I have grown to appreciate Ordinary Time.

It does not arrive with the drama of Christmas.

There are no angels.

No shepherds.

No wise men travelling across continents.

It does not carry the intensity of Holy Week or the great joy of Easter morning.

Ordinary Time simply keeps going.

Sunday after Sunday.

Green vestments.

Parables.

Discipleship.

Faithfulness.

Try again tomorrow.

Which, when you think about it, sounds rather like most of life.

There are seasons when God does something dramatic.

And thank God for them.

But much of Christian discipleship consists of getting up in the morning and trying once again to live as though the Gospel is true.

Love your neighbour.

Forgive somebody.

Tell the truth.

Share what you have.

Notice who is being left out.

Say your prayers.

Wash the dishes.

Repeat tomorrow.

It does not sound spectacular.

It sounds faithful.

And faithfulness may be one of the most underrated forms of holiness.

The Sacrament of Tuesday Afternoon

We sometimes imagine that our spiritual lives would flourish if only our circumstances were more favourable.

If life were quieter.

If the schedule were less crowded.

If the family were less complicated.

If the house were tidier.

If the phone would stop ringing.

If people would simply behave themselves.

This last hope has sustained clergy for centuries despite remarkably little supporting evidence.

But God does not wait for ideal circumstances.

Grace has always been rather comfortable with interruptions.

The incarnation itself is the astonishing declaration that God is willing to enter the mess.

Not a palace.

A stable.

Not perfect circumstances.

Human circumstances.

God comes into a world where meals must be prepared, children cry, neighbours argue, roofs leak, governments irritate people, and somebody has misplaced the hammer again.

And God says:

Here.

I will meet you here.

That changes things.

It means Tuesday afternoon can become holy ground.

So can the grocery store.

So can the kitchen sink.

So can the drive to work.

So can the conversation you were hoping to avoid.

So can the small kindness nobody else notices.

Perhaps Nothing Is Merely Ordinary

There is an old temptation in the spiritual life to divide the world into sacred things and ordinary things.

Church is sacred.

Prayer is sacred.

Scripture is sacred.

Everything else is merely life.

But Christianity refuses to leave the world divided quite so neatly.

We believe in incarnation.

God took flesh.

God entered time.

God ate meals and walked roads and attended weddings and sat at tables.

Which means the ordinary world has been permanently disturbed by grace.

The kitchen table may be an altar of hospitality.

The telephone may become an instrument of compassion.

The garden may become a school of patience.

The hospital waiting room may become a chapel.

The laundry basket may become—

Well.

Let us not get carried away.

But even there, perhaps, love can be practised.

And that may be enough.

The Things That Need Doing

There will probably be something today that needs doing.

Something unimpressive.

Something inconvenient.

Something nobody will congratulate you for doing.

Do it with love.

There may be someone who needs your attention.

Give it generously.

There may be a small opportunity to be patient, forgiving, kind, or courageous.

Take it.

Because the Christian life is rarely built from one enormous heroic decision.

It is built from thousands of small ones.

And somewhere among those dishes, conversations, errands, prayers, phone calls, meals, appointments, interruptions, and unfinished lists, something remarkable happens.

A life slowly begins to resemble Christ.

Not dramatically.

Not perfectly.

But faithfully.

And perhaps that is the quiet miracle Ordinary Time has been trying to teach us all along:

Nothing done with love is merely ordinary.

Not the prayer.

Not the meal.

Not the kindness.

Not the task.

Not even taking out the garbage.

Although if you hear the truck coming down the street, I would suggest that theological reflection can wait.

Go.

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The Spiritual Importance of Putting the Kettle On

There are moments in the Christian life when one expects God to appear.

Christmas Eve, for example.

Easter morning.

A beautiful hymn sung particularly well.

A sunset over a quiet lake when the water is perfectly still and, for reasons nobody can quite explain, there are no mosquitoes.

These are moments when we are prepared for transcendence.

We become quiet. We pay attention. We suspect that heaven may be nearby.

But then there are Tuesdays.

Tuesdays are rarely accused of being transcendent.

Tuesday generally arrives carrying a grocery list, three emails requiring answers, a load of laundry, something mysterious happening beneath the kitchen sink, and the vague suspicion that there was something important we were supposed to remember.

This is why I have come to believe that one of the great spiritual disciplines of Ordinary Time may simply be this:

Put the kettle on.

Not metaphorically.

Actually put the kettle on.

The Theology of the Kettle

There is something wonderfully ordinary about making tea.

You fill the kettle.

You wait.

And this already makes tea-making slightly countercultural, because modern civilization has developed a deep suspicion of waiting.

We have instant messages, instant banking, instant news, instant coffee, and occasionally instant opinions about subjects we first encountered approximately forty-seven seconds ago.

But kettles remain stubbornly committed to the ancient spiritual discipline of taking as long as they take.

You cannot successfully shout a kettle into boiling faster.

I have never tried this personally, of course.

But I know people.

The kettle asks us to wait.

And waiting creates a small space in the day.

A pause.

A breath.

A moment in which nothing particularly productive is happening.

Which may be precisely why God can sometimes get our attention.

Jesus Seemed to Understand This

One of the remarkable things about the Gospels is how much of Jesus’ ministry happens around very ordinary things.

Bread.

Fish.

Tables.

Water.

Meals.

Walking down roads.

Sitting in houses.

Conversations that apparently began without an agenda.

Jesus certainly entered synagogues and the Temple, but he also spent an extraordinary amount of time in kitchens, boats, fields, homes, and dining rooms.

The Kingdom of God kept appearing in places where nobody had installed stained glass.

That should tell us something.

Christianity has sometimes trained us to look for God primarily in what we call “spiritual moments.”

But the Incarnation suggests something much more astonishing.

God entered ordinary human life.

Not an idealized version of it.

Not the carefully edited version suitable for Christmas cards.

Actual life.

Meals had to be prepared.

Feet became dirty.

People became tired.

Friends misunderstood one another.

Families worried.

Wine ran out.

And into this very ordinary world came the Word made flesh.

Perhaps holiness has always been much closer to the kitchen than we imagined.

The Ministry of the Mug

There is another reason I think making tea may be spiritually significant.

Tea is often something we make for somebody else.

“Would you like a cup?”

It is one of the simplest questions in the English language.

And yet sometimes it means:

Sit down.

Tell me what happened.

You do not need to hurry.

I am listening.

You are welcome here.

There are pastoral conversations that begin with prayer.

There are others that begin with a kettle clicking off in the kitchen.

I suspect God is equally capable of inhabiting both.

Hospitality rarely announces itself as a theological virtue.

Usually it looks like finding another mug.

Clearing some papers off the table.

Opening the biscuit tin.

Discovering that somebody has eaten the last biscuit and briefly reconsidering one’s commitment to Christian forgiveness.

Then sitting down.

And listening.

This is how grace often enters the room.

Quietly.

Without credentials.

Carrying tea.

Ordinary Time Is Full of Sacraments We Never Named

We Anglicans understand sacramental life.

We know that ordinary things can become bearers of extraordinary grace.

Water.

Bread.

Wine.

Oil.

Hands laid gently upon another person.

Physical things through which God communicates something deeper.

But perhaps sacramental imagination should not stop at the church door.

Perhaps there are little sacramental moments scattered everywhere through our days.

A meal prepared for someone we love.

A telephone call we finally make.

A neighbour whose driveway we shovel.

A chair pulled closer to someone who is grieving.

A casserole delivered without requiring a committee meeting.

A cup of tea placed quietly beside someone who has had a difficult day.

None of these things will appear particularly impressive on a résumé.

Heaven seems remarkably unconcerned about résumés.

Jesus once suggested that even a cup of cold water given in love mattered to God.

Which means the Kingdom may be advancing through countless small kindnesses nobody thought important enough to photograph.

The Problem With Looking for Spectacular Grace

Sometimes we imagine that a meaningful Christian life must involve dramatic things.

Great missions.

Great sacrifices.

Great spiritual experiences.

Great accomplishments.

But most discipleship happens somewhere between breakfast and bedtime.

It happens while we are deciding whether to be patient.

Whether to forgive.

Whether to listen.

Whether to notice someone.

Whether to interrupt our carefully organized day because another human being needs us.

Most saints probably became saints this way.

Not through one magnificent act of holiness, but through ten thousand small acts of faithfulness.

One prayer.

One kindness.

One apology.

One meal.

One visit.

One cup of tea.

Repeated over a lifetime.

God Is Already in the Kitchen

These October days between Thanksgiving and All Saints are wonderfully ordinary.

The great feast has passed.

The next great feast has not yet arrived.

The leaves are falling.

The mornings are darker.

The calendar continues filling itself despite repeated requests that it show some restraint.

And perhaps this little stretch of Ordinary Time offers us a gift.

It reminds us that we do not have to wait for Christmas or Easter or some dramatic spiritual breakthrough to encounter God.

God is already here.

At the table.

Beside the sink.

Walking with us through the grocery store.

Sitting beside the hospital bed.

Standing in the doorway when someone needs to talk.

Waiting in that quiet little space between filling the kettle and hearing it boil.

The saints whose feast we will soon celebrate understood something about this.

Holiness is rarely glamorous.

It is simply love becoming habitual.

Faithfulness becoming ordinary.

Grace becoming something we practise almost without noticing.

And perhaps that is one of the deepest invitations of Ordinary Time:

Do not spend your life waiting for extraordinary moments in which to become holy.

Become holy in the ordinary ones.

Put the kettle on.

Find another mug.

Pull up a chair.

Someone may need to talk.

And God may already be sitting at the table.

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Companion Prayer

Gracious God,

thank you for meeting us
in kitchens and conversations,
in waiting and wondering,
in the simple gift of a warm cup
and a listening heart.

Teach us to recognize holiness
in the ordinary moments of our days.
Make us generous with our time,
patient with one another,
and ready to make room at the table.

When we go searching for you
in extraordinary places,
remind us that you are already here.

Give us grace to put the kettle on,
pull up another chair,
and welcome whoever you send our way.

Amen.

God Is in the Unfinished Things

There is something deeply satisfying about finishing something.

A completed project.

A clean kitchen.

A lawn entirely raked.

An inbox containing no unread messages.

I include that last example principally for its imaginative value.

Completion gives us a lovely sense that, for one shining moment, the universe has been brought under control. The dishes are put away. The laundry is folded. The sermon is written. The committee minutes have been approved. The batteries in the smoke detector have finally been replaced.

We stand back and admire our achievement.

Then someone walks into the kitchen carrying a dirty mug.

And creation falls once again into chaos.

Perhaps this is one of the reasons Ordinary Time matters.

The great festivals of the Church have a certain completeness about them. Christmas arrives with angels and shepherds and a child in a manger. Easter arrives with lilies, trumpets, and the astonishing announcement that Christ is risen. Pentecost brings wind and fire. Thanksgiving gathers us around tables groaning beneath the weight of turkey, potatoes, pie, and enough leftovers to feed a modest monastery.

Then comes Tuesday.

Nothing particularly dramatic happens.

There are emails to answer.

Appointments to keep.

Groceries to buy.

Someone has misplaced the car keys.

Again.

And most of life is rather like that.

We Live in the Middle

We like beginnings and endings.

Beginnings are full of possibility. Endings give us satisfaction.

But most of life is lived somewhere between them.

We are becoming something we have not yet become.

We are learning things we have not yet mastered.

We are carrying questions that have not yet been answered.

We are praying prayers whose answers we cannot yet see.

We are trying to forgive.

Trying to trust.

Trying to understand.

Trying to become the people God created us to be.

And we are not finished.

This can be frustrating.

We sometimes imagine that the Christian life ought to produce quicker results.

Surely, after all these years of prayer, worship, Scripture, sermons, Eucharists, committees, potluck suppers, and patiently singing hymns selected by other people, we ought to have become saints by now.

And yet there we are, driving home from church irritated because someone took too long to pull out of the parking lot.

Sanctification, apparently, is taking longer than anticipated.

Jesus Seems Remarkably Comfortable With Process

One of the striking things about Jesus is how often he speaks about the Kingdom of God using images of things that are growing.

Seeds.

Fields.

Vines.

Trees.

Yeast working quietly through dough.

None of these things happens instantly.

You cannot plant a tomato seed at breakfast and complain at lunch that nothing useful has happened.

Well, you can.

But the tomato will remain unimpressed.

Growth takes time.

Roots form where no one can see them.

Seeds break open underground.

Yeast works invisibly.

Branches stretch slowly toward the light.

Much of God’s work in us happens in exactly this way.

Quietly.

Slowly.

Often invisibly.

There are seasons when we wonder whether anything is happening at all.

But grace is patient.

God seems considerably less anxious about our progress than we are.

The Holiness of Half-Finished Things

Perhaps we need to recover a theology of the unfinished.

The prayer that still feels awkward.

The relationship that is slowly healing.

The grief that has become lighter but has not disappeared.

The habit we are trying to change.

The faith that still contains questions.

The ministry whose future we cannot yet see.

The person we are still becoming.

We often look at these things and see failure because they are incomplete.

God may look at them and see growth.

There is a difference.

A house under construction is not a failed house.

A garden in April is not a failed garden.

A child learning to walk is not a failed pedestrian.

And a Christian still learning to love is not a failed disciple.

We are simply unfinished.

And unfinished is not the same thing as abandoned.

God Has Not Put Down the Tools

There is a lovely confidence in Paul’s words to the Philippians: the God who began a good work among them will bring it to completion.

Notice where the confidence lies.

Not in their determination.

Not in their spiritual discipline.

Not in their impressive religious accomplishments.

The confidence lies in God.

God began the work.

God continues the work.

God will complete the work.

That does not make us passive. We still pray, serve, repent, forgive, learn, risk, love, and begin again.

But we do these things knowing that the deepest work of transformation belongs to grace.

God is not standing over us with a clipboard saying, “Honestly, I expected considerably more progress by October.”

God is the patient gardener.

The careful carpenter.

The artist who sees something in the unfinished canvas that the rest of us cannot yet imagine.

Ordinary Time Is Workshop Time

Maybe that is one way to think about these days between Thanksgiving and All Saints.

This is workshop time.

There are wood shavings on the floor.

Paint on the brushes.

Half-finished things everywhere.

The Church has taken off some of its festival clothing and returned to the ordinary work of becoming.

And perhaps that is exactly where we need to be.

Because All Saints is coming.

Soon we will remember those remarkable women and men whose lives revealed something of the holiness of God.

But I suspect that if we could ask most of the saints whether they considered themselves finished products, they would laugh.

Probably rather loudly.

The saints were not people who reached spiritual perfection and spent the remainder of their lives glowing gently in stained-glass windows.

They struggled.

They doubted.

They failed.

They repented.

They started again.

They discovered that holiness is less about arriving and more about continuing to walk toward God.

That is good news for the rest of us.

Perhaps Today Is Enough

You do not need to finish your whole life today.

You do not need to solve every problem.

You do not need to understand every mystery.

You do not need to become completely patient, perfectly generous, entirely forgiving, universally cheerful, and capable of attending every church meeting without occasionally wondering how long it will last.

Today you may simply need to take the next faithful step.

Say the prayer.

Make the phone call.

Offer the apology.

Take the walk.

Read the Scripture.

Feed someone.

Forgive a little more than yesterday.

Notice the person who needs kindness.

Begin again.

Because God is not waiting for the finished version of you before deciding to love you.

God is already here.

Among the loose ends.

Among the unanswered questions.

Among the half-finished projects and prayers.

Among the ordinary Tuesdays when nothing seems particularly holy.

The workshop lights are still on.

The tools are still on the bench.

And grace is still at work.

Perhaps the great spiritual discovery of Ordinary Time is simply this:

God is not only waiting for us at the finish line.

God is with us in the unfinished things.

And that means there may be considerably more holiness lying around your ordinary life today than you imagined.

Even beside the dirty mug someone just left in the kitchen.

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Companion Prayer

Loving God, meet me in the unfinished places—in the questions, the slow progress, and the things still undone. Give me patience with myself, courage for the next faithful step, and trust that your grace is still at work in me. Amen.

When Nothing Much Happens: The Spiritual Gift of an Uneventful Day

There are days that announce themselves.

Christmas arrives with carols and candles. Easter comes with lilies and trumpets. Thanksgiving appears carrying a turkey large enough to require both an engineering degree and a prayer meeting.

Birthdays have cake. Weddings have photographs. Funerals have flowers. Anniversaries have cards, provided someone remembered the anniversary in the first place.

And then there is Tuesday.

Tuesday rarely announces itself.

It simply arrives.

You wake up. You make coffee. You discover that someone has left precisely enough milk in the carton to avoid being accused of finishing it. You answer emails. You look for your glasses while wearing your glasses. You put something somewhere safe and immediately create a mystery that may occupy the remainder of your natural life.

Nothing particularly dramatic happens.

And perhaps that is one of God’s great gifts.

Our Addiction to the Remarkable

We live in a culture fascinated by extraordinary things.

Everything must be amazing.

Meals are amazing. Holidays are amazing. Television programmes are amazing. A new brand of toothpaste apparently offers an experience bordering upon transcendence.

Social media has not helped.

We scroll through photographs of sunsets, vacations, celebrations, beautifully arranged meals, remarkable accomplishments, and people standing beside lakes looking considerably more spiritually fulfilled than anyone has a right to look before breakfast.

Meanwhile, most of life is happening somewhere else.

Most of life happens while washing dishes.

Most of life happens driving to work, making lunches, answering telephone calls, folding laundry, buying groceries, waiting for appointments, taking out the garbage, and wondering why there are seventeen unmatched socks in the laundry basket when you are reasonably certain you purchased them in pairs.

Christian faith can sometimes inherit the same fascination with the spectacular.

We love conversion stories.

We love miracles.

We love mountaintop experiences.

We love those moments when God seems unmistakably present.

And thank God for them.

But Scripture suggests that God has never confined divine activity to dramatic occasions.

God also seems remarkably fond of ordinary days.

Jesus Spent a Great Deal of Time Doing Nothing Remarkable

The Gospels tell us about approximately three years of Jesus’ public ministry.

Before that came nearly thirty years about which Scripture tells us very little.

Thirty years.

That is an astonishing amount of unrecorded holiness.

We know about Bethlehem. We know about the visit to Jerusalem when Jesus was twelve.

And then the Gospel writers effectively say, “Several decades passed.”

What happened?

Presumably, Jesus grew up.

He learned Joseph’s trade. He ate meals. He attended synagogue. He knew neighbours. He celebrated festivals. He worked with his hands. He probably repaired things that broke.

The Son of God apparently spent most of his earthly life doing things nobody thought important enough to write down.

That ought to tell us something.

The Incarnation does not merely mean that God entered human suffering.

It also means that God entered human ordinariness.

God entered kitchens and workshops.

God entered conversations and chores.

God entered family life and village life.

God entered days when absolutely nothing happened that would ever appear in a history book.

And because Christ entered ordinary life, ordinary life can never again be dismissed as spiritually insignificant.

The Holiness of Repetition

There is something deeply sacramental about repetition.

Morning comes again.

Bread is broken again.

Prayers are said again.

The kettle boils again.

Someone needs feeding again.

Someone needs forgiving again.

Someone needs listening to again.

The Christian life is not usually built from a handful of heroic moments.

It is built from thousands of small acts of faithfulness.

We pray again.

We forgive again.

We show up again.

We begin again.

This is why the Church’s long season of Ordinary Time matters so much.

The liturgical colour is green because green is the colour of growth.

And growth is usually unimpressive while it is happening.

Nobody stands beside a tomato plant at three o’clock in the afternoon and shouts, “Look! It grew!”

You would have to possess both exceptional eyesight and very little else to do.

But return a week later and something has changed.

Roots have deepened.

Leaves have opened.

Fruit has begun forming.

Much of God’s work in us happens exactly like that.

Quietly.

Gradually.

Almost invisibly.

Grace rarely sends a progress report.

Perhaps Boring Is a Blessing

We are inclined to complain when life becomes uneventful.

“Nothing happened today.”

But consider what that sentence may actually mean.

No one called with terrible news.

No ambulance arrived.

No relationship collapsed.

No crisis erupted.

No doctor spoke the sentence you were afraid to hear.

No one you love disappeared from your life.

Perhaps “nothing happened today” is sometimes another way of saying:

Today was held together by grace.

There are seasons when an uneventful day is something we would give almost anything to have.

Anyone who has lived through grief, illness, uncertainty, conflict, or sudden change knows this.

There comes a moment when you no longer long for excitement.

You long for normal.

You want coffee in your usual mug.

You want the dog to need walking.

You want to complain mildly about the weather.

You want to stand in the grocery store wondering why one apparently needs a mortgage to purchase cheese.

You want ordinary life back.

And when it returns, you discover that ordinary was never ordinary at all.

It was grace wearing work clothes.

God Is Already Here

Perhaps one of the great spiritual disciplines of Ordinary Time is learning to stop asking God to appear somewhere else.

We often imagine that God is waiting for us in some future moment.

When life settles down.

When we become more prayerful.

When we finally understand what we are doing.

When the house is organized.

When the children grow up.

When retirement comes.

When the difficult season ends.

Then, perhaps, we will have time for God.

But God has never been particularly interested in waiting for ideal circumstances.

The God revealed in Jesus Christ keeps entering the life we actually have.

The messy kitchen.

The crowded calendar.

The unfinished conversation.

The hospital waiting room.

The commute.

The garden.

The office.

The supper table.

The quiet evening when nobody telephones and nothing remarkable happens.

This is where grace meets us.

Not after life becomes extraordinary.

Here.

Now.

In this ordinary Tuesday.

The Prayer of an Uneventful Day

Perhaps tonight, when someone asks, “How was your day?” you will be tempted to say:

“Nothing much happened.”

Before dismissing it, consider what may have happened unnoticed.

Someone smiled because you were kind.

Someone felt less alone because you listened.

Someone ate because you cooked.

Someone was encouraged because you spoke.

Someone was forgiven.

Someone was remembered in prayer.

A small piece of God’s creation was tended.

A relationship was quietly strengthened.

A burden became slightly lighter.

And somewhere beneath all of it, unnoticed and unannounced, God continued the patient work of grace.

No trumpets.

No headlines.

No heavenly fireworks.

Just another ordinary day in the Kingdom of God.

And perhaps that is enough.

Perhaps holiness has always looked more like this than we imagined.

Because the great mystery of Ordinary Time is not that nothing is happening.

The great mystery is that God is doing something holy in days we are tempted to overlook.

So tomorrow morning, when another apparently unremarkable day arrives, receive it carefully.

Make the coffee.

Say your prayers.

Feed somebody.

Forgive somebody.

Notice something beautiful.

Do the work in front of you.

Love the people God has placed within reach.

And do not be surprised if, years from now, you discover that these ordinary days were quietly becoming your life.

Because they were.

And God was there all along.

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Companion Prayer

God of ordinary days,
open our eyes to the grace hidden within familiar things. Teach us to receive each day with gratitude, to do small things with great love, and to recognize Christ beside us in every quiet moment. Amen.