
There are some organizations in life that require you to meet certain standards before you can join.
Golf clubs.
Professional associations.
Exclusive social circles.
Neighbourhood committees that seem to require a secret handshake and three letters of reference.
The Church, however, has always operated rather differently.
The Church is one of the few places where people gather who, under ordinary circumstances, might never have found themselves sitting in the same room.
And yet there they are.
Week after week.
Year after year.
One worshipping beside another.
One praying beside another.
One serving beside another.
One occasionally trying very hard not to roll their eyes at another.
This, I am convinced, is one of God’s more remarkable accomplishments.
If I were designing salvation from scratch, I suspect I would have organized people into tidy groups according to age, interests, personality, favourite hymns, coffee preferences, and opinions about church thermostats.
God, however, appears to have had other ideas.
The Church is a collection of people who often have very little in common except Christ.
And somehow that turns out to be enough.
In every congregation I have ever served there have been people whose lives looked nothing alike.
Farmers and accountants.
Teachers and truck drivers.
Executives and retirees.
People who read theology for recreation and people who believe the most spiritual thing they can do is survive the week without yelling at the television.
Some arrive dressed as though meeting the Archbishop.
Others arrive looking as though they narrowly escaped a lawn mower.
Yet somehow they gather around the same table.
They pray the same prayers.
They hear the same Gospel.
They share the same peace.
It is all rather extraordinary when you stop to think about it.
Of course, living in community is not always easy.
Churches are filled with human beings.
And human beings possess the curious habit of being human.
We misunderstand one another.
We annoy one another.
We occasionally say things that would have been better left unsaid.
We sometimes discover that our fellow parishioners have opinions.
Strong opinions.
Very strong opinions.
Especially regarding parking spaces, coffee quality, and the proper location of every piece of furniture in the parish hall.
Yet through all of this, something deeper remains.
Because Christian community is not built on similarity.
It is built on grace.
Grace allows us to see one another not merely as neighbours, acquaintances, or fellow committee members, but as brothers and sisters in Christ.
That language is not sentimental.
It is theological.
The Church is family.
And like every family, it contains an astonishing assortment of personalities.
Some are quiet.
Some are loud.
Some arrive early.
Some arrive exactly three minutes after the opening hymn begins and somehow believe nobody notices.
We notice.
We simply love them anyway.
Perhaps that is one of the greatest gifts of belonging to a church community.
In a world increasingly organized around preference and convenience, the Church quietly teaches us how to belong to people we did not choose.
And in doing so, it teaches us something about the heart of God.
For God did not wait until we became perfect before welcoming us.
God gathered us as we are.
Flaws and all.
Quirks included.
Even those opinions about the thermostat.
Especially those opinions about the thermostat.
This Ordinary Time season is often described as a season of growth.
And perhaps one of the ways we grow is by learning to love the curious collection of saints around us.
Not because they are exactly like us.
But because Christ is present among us.
What a wonderful thing it is to belong to a community where grace is stronger than our differences, where laughter is never far away, and where God continues the ongoing miracle of turning a room full of strangers into a family.
That may not seem miraculous at first glance.
But spend enough time at a church potluck and you will quickly recognize that it absolutely is.
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A Prayer for the Church Family
Gracious God,
We thank you for the gift of your Church,
for the curious collection of saints
with whom you have called us to walk this earthly pilgrimage.
Thank you for the people who have encouraged us,
prayed for us,
laughed with us,
and occasionally put up with us.
Thank you for those whose faith inspires us,
for those whose wisdom guides us,
and for those whose presence reminds us
that your grace comes in many different forms.
Forgive us when we focus more on our differences than on your love.
Forgive us when impatience replaces kindness,
when criticism replaces understanding,
or when we forget that every person we meet
is someone dearly loved by you.
Teach us to see one another through your eyes.
Give us hearts that are generous,
spirits that are humble,
and a sense of humour strong enough
to survive committee meetings,
coffee hour conversations,
and discussions about thermostats.
Help us to welcome newcomers,
encourage the weary,
support the struggling,
and rejoice with those who celebrate.
May our congregations be places
where strangers become friends,
where friends become family,
and where all who enter
catch a glimpse of your kingdom.
Above all, keep us rooted in Christ,
who gathers us from many backgrounds,
many experiences,
and many opinions,
and makes us one body through his love.
For this gift of belonging,
for this gift of community,
and for this wonderfully imperfect family of faith,
we give you thanks.
Through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Amen.








