
By the second Friday of September, most households have settled into a rhythm. The lunches have been packed for nearly two weeks. The alarm clock has become less of a shocking betrayal and more of a resigned acquaintance. Calendars are filling with meetings, practices, choir rehearsals, committee gatherings, and appointments that somehow all seem to happen on Thursday evenings.
And then there is the refrigerator.
Specifically, there is that familiar shelf containing several small containers whose contents have become increasingly mysterious. They are leftovers, although some have now progressed to a theological category somewhere between hope and archaeology.
I have often suspected that every refrigerator contains one container that no one wishes to claim responsibility for. It sits quietly at the back, minding its own business while everyone reaches around it for the milk. Every day someone thinks, I should probably deal with that. Yet somehow nobody ever does.
Eventually, someone summons enough courage to lift the lid.
At that point, prayer becomes entirely appropriate.
I sometimes think we approach parts of our spiritual lives in much the same way.
There are disappointments we have carefully stored away. Old hurts tucked into the back corner of the heart. Dreams that didn’t quite become reality. Conversations we wish had gone differently. Prayers that seemed to receive only silence.
We tell ourselves we’ll deal with them “one day.”
But life gets busy.
So they remain.
Thankfully, God possesses a remarkable inability to be intimidated by the neglected corners of our lives.
Throughout Scripture, God consistently enters places that everyone else has written off. Moses encounters God in an ordinary wilderness. Ezekiel finds hope in a valley of dry bones. Jesus spends astonishing amounts of time with people whom respectable society had quietly pushed to the back shelf.
Nothing appears beyond God’s willingness to redeem.
One of the great comforts of the Gospel is that Christ never waits until we have everything neatly organized before coming to us. If that were the requirement, very few of us would ever qualify.
Instead, Jesus arrives while life is still gloriously untidy.
He comes to disciples who misunderstand him.
He comes to doubting Thomas.
He comes to Peter, who is still carrying the embarrassment of denying him.
He comes to ordinary people whose lives resemble overstuffed kitchen junk drawers far more than carefully arranged museum displays.
Grace seems unusually comfortable in clutter.
I have served as a priest long enough to know that almost everyone imagines everyone else has their life together. It is one of humanity’s more amusing collective delusions. We compare our behind-the-scenes footage with everyone else’s carefully edited highlights.
If churches installed thought bubbles over our heads on Sunday mornings, attendance might become even more interesting.
“Did I remember to turn the slow cooker off?”
“I really should apologize to my sister.”
“I wonder if anyone notices these shoes are older than some university students.”
“I hope the choir doesn’t sing the fourth verse.”
The truth is wonderfully reassuring.
None of us arrives before God polished to perfection.
We arrive carrying leftovers.
Some are joyful memories.
Some are unfinished business.
Some are regrets.
Some are hopes we haven’t entirely given up on.
And somehow, by the extraordinary hospitality of God’s grace, all of it is welcomed.
Perhaps that is why the Eucharist has always spoken so deeply to me. We come with empty hands and complicated stories. Some weeks we arrive full of gratitude. Other weeks we arrive exhausted, distracted, worried, or uncertain.
Christ feeds us anyway.
The meal has never depended upon our perfection.
It has always depended upon God’s generosity.
So if your September already feels a little fuller than expected, if there are corners of your life you’ve been avoiding because they seem too complicated or too old to matter anymore, remember this:
The God who created galaxies has never been afraid to open the back of your spiritual refrigerator.
There is no forgotten container that surprises the One who delights in making all things new.
And that, I think, is very good news indeed.
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Companion Prayer
Gracious God,
Thank you for loving every corner of our lives, even the places we have neglected or forgotten. Help us to trust that your grace is never afraid of our unfinished stories, and that your mercy is always making all things new. Fill us today with hope, gratitude, and the quiet assurance of your faithful presence.
Through Christ our Lord.
Amen.








