The Theology of Alarm Clocks – On Waking, Watchfulness, and God’s Call to Rise

With a big out-of-town wedding yesterday, I must admit that it ended up being a rather late day for me, and that when the alarm clock screeched out the message that it was now time to get up and get moving, it was not the most welcome sound in the world.

I confess, dear reader, that my alarm clock and I have a complicated relationship. I seldom need an alarm. I wake naturally very early in the morning. But on days such as today…? It promises to rouse me in the gentlest way possible, yet its shrill voice suggests otherwise. In my more charitable moments, I think of it as a faithful little prophet, crying out in the wilderness of my bedroom, “Prepare the way of the day!” In less charitable moments, I consider the theology of throwing it against the wall.

Alarm clocks, of course, are not biblical inventions. Nowhere in the Gospels do we read, “And lo, at the cock’s third snooze button, Peter arose reluctantly.” Yet the theme of waking and watchfulness is woven throughout Scripture. Paul tells the Romans: “You know what time it is, how it is now the moment for you to wake from sleep” (Romans 13:11). Jesus warns his disciples to keep awake, for we do not know the hour when the Lord will come (Mark 13:35-37).

In other words, alarm clocks are deeply theological objects. They remind us that time is not infinite, that our days are numbered, and that each new morning is both gift and calling. They summon us not simply to consciousness, but to faithfulness.

But let’s be honest — sometimes, when the alarm rings, faithfulness looks a lot like fumbling for the snooze button. And here lies another little parable: how often do we, spiritually speaking, hit “snooze” on God’s call? We sense the nudge to prayer, the invitation to forgiveness, the tug toward justice — and we think, “just a few more minutes, Lord.”

And yet, by God’s mercy, the alarm sounds again. Grace persists, even when we are groggy and grumpy. The morning comes, even after the darkest night. And every sunrise is, in its way, a resurrection — an invitation to rise and walk again in newness of life.

So perhaps tomorrow morning, when the alarm shatters your dreams and insists you face the day, you might pause before the muttered complaints. Instead, you could whisper a prayer: “Thank you, Lord, for the gift of waking. Help me to rise not only from my bed, but into the life you call me to live.”

And if you still hit the snooze button? Well, remember: even disciples dozed off in Gethsemane. The miracle is that Christ woke them — and us — up again.

Prayer

Lord of mornings and Master of time,
thank you for the gift of waking,
for each new day that calls us into life with you.
When we are tempted to “snooze” your call,
stir us by your Spirit to rise with courage,
to watch with faith,
and to walk in the light of your love.
Through Jesus Christ, who is our dawn and our day.
Amen.

Holiness in a Traffic Jam: Prayer at Red Lights

This week has involved a lot of time spent sitting behind the wheel of my car. Between normal ministry stuff, a very sick aunt in Kitchener, and wedding and rehearsal in Brantford, I have spent more than the average amount of time in the car. It got me thinking about the holiness of some of those moments.

There are many places one might expect to meet the Holy Spirit. A quiet chapel. A mountaintop. Perhaps even a cathedral resounding with hymns. Few of us, however, would expect the third lane from the left on the 401 at 5:15 p.m. to be the site of divine encounter. Yet holiness has a stubborn habit of showing up in the most inconvenient places — often, it seems, precisely where we least want to be.

Take, for example, the humble red light.

There you are, late for a meeting (or, if you’re clergy, late for a meeting about a meeting), and the light turns red just as you approach. In that instant, holiness feels less like the serene glow of stained glass and more like the red glare of a cosmic joke at your expense.

But here is the thing: the red light is not an obstacle. It is an invitation.

The Red Light as Spiritual Director

Think of it. For 45 blessed seconds, you are freed from the tyranny of productivity. You cannot fix, you cannot hurry, you cannot persuade the light to change by sheer force of will (though I have tried). The red light looks you square in the eye and says: “Be still and know that I am God. Also, keep your hands at ten and two.”

This is holiness in a traffic jam: learning to see delay not as punishment but as prayer time.

The Temptations of the Jam

Of course, holiness is rarely the first thought. One is tempted instead to:

  • Mutter imprecations about the driving ability of the person ahead (who clearly, by the speed of their reaction, is composing a sonnet before finding the gas pedal).
  • Glance at the clock a dozen times, thereby bending the space-time continuum not one whit.
  • Check one’s phone, which the local police will kindly remind us is neither holy nor legal.

These are the little wilderness temptations of modern discipleship.

The Discipline of Delay

What if, instead, we prayed? Not long, elaborate prayers—just the simple stuff. “Lord, keep me patient.” “Lord, bless the people in the car beside me.” “Lord, may I not honk like a goose possessed.” Even the Jesus Prayer fits neatly into one red light cycle, though admittedly it’s hard to pray “have mercy on me, a sinner” while also plotting exactly how you’d re-time the lights if the mayor gave you one week and a traffic manual.

The Theology of the Brake Pedal

Perhaps holiness in a traffic jam is simply this: remembering that I am not in control. The brake pedal teaches the same truth as the baptismal font: life is not my invention, and God’s timing is rarely my timing. Waiting at a light is practice for all the other waiting we must do — waiting for healing, waiting for clarity, waiting for the kingdom that Jesus promises.

So the next time the light turns red, don’t grit your teeth. Take a breath. Say a prayer. Wave charitably at the person who just cut you off. Who knows? That short delay may be less about getting to your appointment and more about God getting to you.

After all, holiness is not only found in the sanctuary. Sometimes it shows up between the brake and the accelerator, reminding us that God’s love—like GTA traffic—is patient, long-suffering, and quite often stuck at a standstill.

A Prayer for Holiness in Traffic

Patient God,
you are with us in chapels and cathedrals,
and also in the long line of brake lights before us.
When impatience rises, give us your calm.
When anger bubbles up, give us your mercy.
Teach us to see each red light as a chance to pause,
to breathe, to pray, and to remember that life is not ours to control.

Bless the strangers in cars beside us,
the hurried, the weary, the distracted,
and bless us, that we may drive not only with caution,
but with kindness.

Turn our traffic jams into sanctuaries,
our waiting into worship,
and our journeys into holy pilgrimages,
until we reach at last that city with streets of gold,
where every light shines green in your eternal presence.

Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

The Ministry of Folding Chairs – Unnoticed Work That Makes Community Possible

There are saints whose names are written in stained glass and history books. And then there are saints whose legacy is marked by the faint squeak of metal hinges and the stubborn pinch of fingers caught where the chair folds. These are the saints of the folding chairs.

You know them. They’re the folks who slip into the hall ten minutes before everyone else, setting up neat rows of chairs so the Bible study doesn’t become a game of musical chairs. Or they’re the ones who stay after the potluck, while the rest of us are locked in pitched theological debates over whose Jell-O salad had the most merit. These saints silently gather chairs, stack them in teetering towers, and roll them away with the reverence of a medieval procession—except with slightly more clanging.

Folding chairs are, in their own way, profoundly theological. They remind us that the Church is not built solely on sermons or hymns, but on the humble labour that makes space for community to happen. Every vestry meeting, every funeral tea, every youth group pizza night rests (quite literally) on someone’s willingness to haul out a chair. Without them, we’d be standing awkwardly, balancing our paper plates, trying not to spill coffee on the carpet.

I recall one church supper where the crowd was so large that we ran out of chairs altogether. We pressed into service the piano bench, a step stool, and what I am fairly sure was a flower stand that never quite recovered. It was a moment of creative community—but it also reminded us just how unnoticed the quiet ministry of the folding chair really is.

Theologically, folding chairs whisper to us about servanthood. Jesus washed feet; today, it might be setting out chairs in the parish hall. Nobody applauds, nobody takes pictures for the parish newsletter, and nobody writes a hymn about it (though I confess, I’d pay good money to hear “All Glory Be to Thee, O Chair Committee”). But there in the unnoticed work, Christ is present.

So the next time you walk into a perfectly arranged hall, or slide into a chair that someone else unfolded for you, give thanks for the ministry of the folding chairs—and for the quiet saints who keep our community from sitting on the floor. And for those who step up to do this holy servant ministry, it is indeed very scriptural. In 1 Peter it says for example, “Like good stewards of the manifold grace of God, serve one another with whatever gift each of you has received.”

Because when all is said and done, the kingdom of God is not only built on lofty theology and soaring hymns. Sometimes it is built one folding chair at a time, squeaking faithfully into place. And as Paul reminds us, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters” (Colossians 3:23). Even the quiet work of setting up chairs is holy when done in love, for it prepares a place where God’s people may gather, and where Christ himself is in the midst.

Prayer

Servant Lord,
we thank you for the quiet ministries that hold our communities together—
for the chairs unfolded, the tables set, the coffee poured,
and all the unnoticed work done in love.

Bless those whose hands serve quietly,
whose labour makes space for welcome and fellowship.
Teach us to see holiness in the humble tasks,
and to serve one another with joy,
that every chair, every gesture,
may become part of your kingdom work.

Through Jesus Christ,
who calls us not to be served but to serve.
Amen.

Praying with the Seasons – How Fall Leaves, Winter Silence, Spring Blossoms, and Summer Heat Invite Us into God’s Rhythms

I sometimes suspect that God gave us seasons not only for the farmers and their crops, or for those who like to keep an orderly calendar, but also for the poets, the preachers, and perhaps even the comedians. Every shift in the weather is a new sermon, if we are only willing to listen. And if you’ve ever tried to rake leaves in a stiff October wind or shovel snow that the city plough pushed right back into your driveway, you know that creation has a remarkable way of keeping us humble.

Fall: The Gospel of Letting Go
There’s something profoundly theological about autumn. Trees, who spend all summer working so hard at dressing themselves in leafy splendour, suddenly throw the whole wardrobe onto the ground. It’s as if creation itself is reminding us that letting go is not defeat but preparation. Prayer in the fall becomes an act of release — placing in God’s hands what we cannot control, and trusting that new life will come. Of course, if you’ve ever bagged leaves only to have a neighbour’s tree blow the next batch into your yard, you also know that letting go takes practice.

Winter: The Psalm of Silence
Winter teaches us that sometimes the holiest prayer is simply stillness. The snow muffles the noise of the world, and the long nights invite us into reflection. Prayer in winter is often wordless — resting, waiting, longing. Now, silence may sound holy, but let me assure you it’s not always easy. A quiet evening by the fire sounds romantic until the pipes freeze and you find yourself praying with great fervour over a hairdryer and a wrench. Still, winter reminds us that God is at work in the hidden places, even when the ground looks barren.

Spring: The Prayer of Surprise
Spring comes along like the choir bursting into a hymn one verse too soon — loud, joyful, and impossible to ignore. Buds appear where you thought the branch was dead, tulips pop up in flowerbeds you forgot you planted, and suddenly the whole creation is humming the doxology. Prayer in spring is thanksgiving — spontaneous, surprising, and sometimes a little muddy, because joy has a way of splashing where it pleases.

Summer: The Petition of Perseverance
And then comes summer — long days of heat where prayer takes the form of endurance. We pray for rain, for patience, for air conditioning that doesn’t break down. We pray with gratitude for ice cream and shade trees, and with lament for mosquitoes who seem to regard us as the Lord’s supper. Summer teaches us that prayer isn’t always lofty — it can be sweaty, persistent, and grateful for every breeze.

The Whole Year as Prayer
Taken together, the seasons remind us that prayer is not a one-size-fits-all activity. Sometimes it’s release, sometimes silence, sometimes joy, sometimes persistence. The world itself becomes our prayer book, turning its pages one season at a time.

So the next time you find yourself raking leaves, shovelling snow, planting flowers, or swatting mosquitoes, remember: you are already in the middle of a prayer. God is present in it all—inviting us, through the seasons, into the steady rhythm of grace.

Prayer

Creator God,
you are the Lord of every season.
Teach us to pray with the falling leaves,
to listen in the winter silence,
to rejoice with spring blossoms,
and to endure with gratitude in the summer heat.

In every rhythm of the year,
remind us that you are near,
guiding us, shaping us, and drawing us deeper into your love.
May our lives be prayers that follow your seasons of grace,
until all creation sings together in harmony.

Through Jesus Christ,
the Lord of time and eternity.
Amen.

Finding Hope in Hard News – How Christians Live Faithfully Amid Overwhelming Global Challenges

Dear friends,
If you’ve turned on the news lately, you may have found yourself tempted to crawl under the bed with a thermos of tea and wait for the Second Coming. Wars, disasters, political squabbles that make kindergarten playgrounds look positively civil — sometimes it feels like the world has taken a wrong turn and is determined to drive the bus straight into a ditch.

And yet, here we are, Christians called not to despair, but to live faithfully in the thick of it. That’s no easy assignment. Frankly, there are days when I’d rather have the simpler biblical tasks—like naming the animals in Eden. At least “hippopotamus” sounds more cheerful than “climate crisis” or “market crash.”

But God has not given us the gift of selective news reception. We can’t only listen to the stories of weddings at Cana and fast-forward through Gethsemane. The hard headlines of our world demand our attention. They tell us that creation groans, that nations rage, and that people suffer. Yet Scripture reminds us of something deeper: “The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overcome it” (John 1:5). That verse doesn’t say there was no darkness. It says the darkness did not get the last word.

Hope, you see, is not optimism with a smiley face stuck on it. Hope is that quiet, stubborn trust that God is still God, even when the news ticker says otherwise. It’s the conviction that Christ is risen, and therefore life — real life — will always have the final say.

Now, this doesn’t mean Christians float serenely above the mess with beatific grins. Most of us, when confronted with the daily onslaught, react with something closer to groans, sighs, or the occasional muttered word that probably shouldn’t be repeated at Morning Prayer. And yet — even there — hope takes root. Not because we deny the brokenness, but because we dare to believe that God is working redemption in and through it.

Living faithfully amid overwhelming challenges doesn’t necessarily mean solving them all. (Although if you’ve figured out world peace or how to keep church basements free of mysterious leftover casseroles, do let me know.) Sometimes faithfulness is simply showing up with love: checking on a neighbour, offering a prayer, writing a letter, supporting justice in small but steady ways. It’s remembering that while the world may look like chaos, Christ is still Lord of history — and His Kingdom is coming.

So, dear friends, when the news is hard and your spirit feels weary, don’t crawl under the bed just yet. Instead, look to the One who is Light in darkness, and keep walking, faithfully, hopefully, one small act of love at a time. Because while the headlines may scream otherwise, the deeper truth remains: God’s grace is alive, and it will not be overcome.

A Prayer for Hope in Hard Times

God of Light and Life,
the world’s headlines often leave us weary,
our hearts heavy with grief,
our minds clouded with worry.
We confess that sometimes the darkness feels too great,
and hope seems a fragile thing.

Yet you promise that your light shines in the darkness,
and the darkness cannot overcome it.
Teach us to cling to that promise.
Give us courage to live faithfully amid the storms,
to act with compassion in small ways,
and to trust that you are redeeming all things in Christ.

When fear rises, ground us in your peace.
When despair whispers, remind us of the resurrection.
And when the world feels overwhelming,
draw us back to the simple truth:
you are God, and you are with us.

Through Jesus Christ, our Living Hope, we pray.
Amen.

The Church Kitchen as Sacred Space – A Reflection on Dishwashing, Potlucks, and the Quiet Ministry of Hospitality

This past Sunday was the first Sunday in September. It was the beginning of a new Fall season in our parish, and — as we do to celebrate such momentous occasions in the life of many a parish, we began that season with a potluck lunch to bring people back together. I love potluck lunches, not only for the great variety of foods, or even because of the great fellowship. I love those lunches, because they are holy.

It may surprise you to learn that some of the holiest ground I have ever stood upon is not paved with marble, nor covered in stained glass, nor lined with pews polished by generations of faithful backsides. No, it is tiled linoleum, sticky in spots, with the faint aroma of coffee percolating since 1978. Yes, I speak of the church kitchen.

If you’ve ever tried to navigate a church kitchen, you will know that it is a spiritual test of faith. Forks are never where forks should be, tea towels breed like rabbits in mysterious cupboards, and there is always that one drawer that contains everything from twist ties to rubber bands to a spatula older than the Reformation. And yet—this is sacred space.

Why? Because here, in the clang of pots and the hum of dishwashers, community takes flesh. Here is where potluck casseroles (of varying degrees of digestibility) are set out in love. Here is where the mountain of dirty dishes at the end of a parish supper becomes a sacrament of service. I remember a wise priest I once knew who insisted that the most pastoral conversations he ever had weren’t in his office, but standing elbow to elbow with parishioners, hands in sudsy water, washing plates together. The sink became his confessional, and the dishcloth his pastoral stole.

Now, I will confess, potluck dinners are a theological adventure all on their own. You never quite know if that mystery casserole is tuna, turkey, or possibly a relic of last year’s Christmas potluck making a reappearance. And yet, no matter the offering, it is received with gratitude and joy—reminding us that God’s economy is not about gourmet presentation, but about abundance and sharing.

The Letter to the Hebrews reminds us, “Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by doing that some have entertained angels without knowing it.” (Hebrews 13:2). I am fairly certain that if angels ever do show up in disguise, they will be found carrying a dish to the church kitchen, and probably staying after supper to help with the dishes.

So let us reframe the church kitchen for what it truly is—not just a utilitarian space where food is prepared and cleaned up after, but a holy place where hospitality becomes ministry, where laughter echoes more loudly than the clatter of plates, and where the Kingdom of God quietly breaks in between the casserole and the coffee urn.

So the next time you find yourself on dish duty, remember: you are standing on sacred ground. Take off your rubber gloves, for the place where you scrub is holy.

A Prayer for the Sacred Kitchen

Gracious God,
You meet us not only in sanctuaries of wood and stone,
but in the hum of the dishwasher and the clatter of dishes.
Bless the kitchens of our churches,
where casseroles are offered in love,
where hands are plunged into soapy water,
and where laughter mingles with service.

May the work done there remind us
that hospitality is holy,
and that every shared meal is a glimpse of your Kingdom.
Teach us to see even the dishpan as an altar,
and the tea towel as a stole of service.

Through Christ, who broke bread and washed feet,
we pray.
Amen.

Why Forgiveness Feels So Hard (and Why We Need It Anyway)

If there’s one thing most of us can agree on, it’s that forgiveness sounds lovely in theory and feels terribly awkward in practice. It’s like exercise: we all nod politely when someone recommends it, but when the time comes, we find about 93 reasons why today is not the day.

Forgiveness is hard because it asks us to let go of something we’d rather keep — our carefully polished grudges, our indignation that still feels fresh after all these years, our private sense that we were “in the right” and the other person deserves to squirm just a bit longer. To forgive is to set down that heavy backpack we’ve been lugging around — except we’ve grown so accustomed to the weight, we don’t quite know who we are without it.

Scripture does not soften the challenge. Jesus tells Peter that we are to forgive “seventy times seven” (Matthew 18:22), which is biblical shorthand for as many times as it takes. That’s not because God is trying to make us do spiritual push-ups until we collapse, but because forgiveness is the very air of the Kingdom. As Paul writes, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ has forgiven you” (Ephesians 4:32). We forgive because we have been forgiven — not out of duty, but out of grace received and grace shared.

Of course, some injuries cut deep. Forgiveness does not mean excusing harm or pretending it never happened. It doesn’t mean skipping over justice. What it means is refusing to let bitterness be the final word. When we forgive, we release ourselves as much as the other person. We allow God to write a different ending than the one resentment keeps rehearsing.

I once heard forgiveness described this way: “To forgive is to set a prisoner free — and then discover the prisoner was you.” It’s awkward, yes. It feels unnatural, yes. But it is also one of the most profoundly Christ-shaped things we can do.

And sometimes forgiveness is small and daily — in the kitchen, when someone forgets to refill the ice cube trays again, or when socks are once more abandoned in the hallway like small white flags of surrender. Sometimes forgiveness is in the monumental, the wounds that scar generations. In both, the invitation is the same: to trust that God’s mercy is big enough to carry what we cannot.

Forgiveness feels hard because it is hard. But it is also the road to freedom, to healing, and to life lived in the wide embrace of God’s love.

Amen.

Prayer

Merciful God,
you know how tightly we hold our hurts,
and how heavy the weight of unforgiveness can be.
Teach us to trust your grace more than our grudges.
Help us to release what binds us,
to forgive as we have been forgiven,
and to discover the freedom of your mercy.

Strengthen us where wounds run deep,
give us wisdom where justice is needed,
and surround us with your healing love.
Through Jesus Christ, who bore the cross
that we might be set free.

Amen.

The Sermon of the Squirrels – Creation’s Persistence and God’s Provision in Unlikely Teachers

All through the year, I have a visitor that is regularly in attendance on my back deck. It is a black squirrel that I have often described as the fattest squirrel I have ever seen. My nephew doesn’t like it when I say that though, and says, “You shouldn’t fat shame that poor squirrel.” Putting that aside though, this squirrel is absolutely huge. I saw him on the deck again this morning, and in his quiet squirrelly way, he preached me a sermon.

Now, squirrels are not everyone’s favourite creatures. They chatter at us from the trees, dig up the flowerbeds, and seem to have a particular fondness for anything we’d rather keep safe — birdseed, tulip bulbs, and in my case, the occasional tomato. One could say that if there’s an Olympic medal for persistence, the squirrels have already won the gold.

I watched my little squirrel friend the other day. He was clearly determined to break into the bird feeder I had so carefully “squirrel-proofed.” (A phrase that I now realize belongs in the same category as “jumbo shrimp” or “honest politician.”) For a full ten minutes he tried every possible angle   — leaping, hanging upside down, even attempting what looked suspiciously like a three-point landing on the feeder. At last, with an acrobatic twist that would make a gymnast proud, he secured a single seed, scampered away, and then promptly came back for another.

As I watched him, I began to realize: there’s definitely a sermon here.

Jesus tells us in Matthew’s Gospel to “look at the birds of the air” and see how God provides for them. I wonder if He might also have said, “pay attention to the squirrels too.” For here is a creature that embodies persistence. The squirrel doesn’t give up at the first obstacle. He doesn’t stop because the feeder is designed against him. He keeps at it, trusting (or perhaps just instinctively knowing) that there will be something to eat if he just continues the work.

There is something profoundly theological in that. Our faith journey is often filled with obstacles  —  closed doors, difficult seasons, unanswered prayers. It is tempting to give up, to say, “this is too hard,” or “God must not be listening.” But the squirrel, in all his whiskered determination, reminds us that perseverance matters.

And more than that, the squirrel also trusts in abundance. He gathers acorns and buries them  —  so many that he cannot possibly find them all again. And yet, creation does not waste what he forgets. Those lost acorns become oak trees, spreading their branches wide, providing shade, shelter, and more acorns for generations of squirrels to come. God’s provision is not only enough  —  it overflows.

So perhaps the next time we see a squirrel darting across the lawn, or swinging wildly from a feeder, we can hear a little sermon preached to us. A sermon of persistence, of trust in provision, and of abundance that spills into blessing.

It seems even the squirrels have something to teach us about the Kingdom of God.

Amen.

Companion Prayer

Gracious and abundant God,
you speak to us not only through prophets and preachers,
but through the small, persistent voices of your creation.
Teach us to see your lessons in unlikely teachers  —
in the chatter of squirrels, the patience of birds,
and the quiet rhythms of daily life.

Give us the perseverance to keep faith when the way is hard,
the trust to believe in your provision,
and the joy of knowing your abundance overflows
beyond what we can measure or imagine.

Through Christ our Lord,
Amen.

The Eschatology of Lost Socks – What Laundry Day Can Teach Us About the Kingdom of God

Dear reader, if you’ve known me for very long, you will know that I am very much a creature of habit. I like to structure my life with very set schedules and familiar patterns. In that familiar pattern, Saturday is Laundry Day; the day when the beds are stripped, and the towels are taken from the bathrooms and the kitchen to be laundered and returned fresh for another week. As I started that process, I began to see theology in that laundry.

There are few mysteries in life as profound and perplexing as the disappearance of socks. You put two in the washer, you take one out of the dryer. It’s not higher mathematics, but somehow the numbers never quite add up. Somewhere in the great spinning cosmos of laundry, socks are vanishing — into a parallel universe, a sock-sized black hole, or perhaps a secret society meeting behind the dryer lint trap.

Now, before you accuse me of stretching theology past its breaking point, hear me out. These small, silly mysteries of daily life can point us to the bigger mysteries of God’s Kingdom.

The Already and the Not Yet of Laundry

Theologians often describe the Kingdom of God as “already and not yet.” Christ has come, salvation is here, the Kingdom is breaking in — already. But the fullness of God’s reign, where all things are made whole, is still ahead of us — not yet.

In the same way, laundry day is an exercise in eschatology. We already have the basket full of clean clothes — folded, fresh, almost complete. And yet… the missing sock remains. We live in that tension: the drawer is almost whole, but not entirely.

It’s the same with the Kingdom. We taste it now in acts of mercy, justice, forgiveness, and grace. But we also live in longing for the day when all that is lost — whether socks, loved ones, or fractured hopes — will be gathered up by God’s love.

The Great Sock Reunion

Jesus tells parables of lost sheep, lost coins, lost sons. Each time, the story ends with rejoicing when what was lost is found. If Christ cares for lost sheep and coins, who’s to say the joy of the Kingdom doesn’t include a reunion with that elusive argyle sock?

Of course, the point isn’t laundry — it’s love. The Gospel tells us that God notices, God seeks, God gathers, and nothing is too small or too lost to be redeemed. Even in our own lives, where relationships fray, dreams unravel, or faith feels threadbare, God is weaving all things together.

Folding the Kingdom into Daily Life

So what does the eschatology of lost socks teach us? That our daily, ordinary tasks — yes, even folding laundry — can remind us of holy hope. Each time we sort and match, we can remember that God is sorting and mending the world. Each time we sigh at a single sock, we can remember that what feels incomplete now will one day be made whole.

And perhaps, in the Kingdom of God, there will be no mismatched socks at all — just a holy laundry line, where everything is paired, perfect, and dancing in the breeze of God’s Spirit.

Until then, dear friends, may even your laundry point you to the joy of God’s Kingdom — already here, but not yet complete.

Prayer

Gracious God,
you gather what is scattered
and mend what is torn.
In the small frustrations of life—
even in the mystery of missing socks—
teach us to glimpse the greater mystery of your Kingdom.

When our lives feel incomplete,
remind us that you are weaving all things together.
When we are weary of searching,
assure us that nothing is ever lost to your love.

Give us patience in the “not yet,”
joy in the “already,”
and hope in the promise that all will be made whole
in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Amen.

The Theology of Dishes – Finding Holiness in the Sink Full of Suds

It happens in every household. The supper is finished, the conversation winds down, and then someone utters the fateful words: “Who’s doing the dishes?” Suddenly, chairs scrape back with remarkable speed, family members discover urgent tasks elsewhere, and the dog must be let out immediately — even if you don’t own a dog.

Yes, the dishes. That never-ending cycle of cups and plates, the great equalizer of domestic life. They pile up as surely as manna in the wilderness, except that unlike manna they do not vanish by morning. No, they are still there, stacked precariously in the sink, silently accusing you of neglect.

And yet — believe it or not — there is theology in the dishes.

Psalm 139 reminds us that God knows us in every place and at every moment. Not just in the pews on Sunday, but in the kitchen on Tuesday night. The God who formed the stars and knit us together in our mother’s womb is also the God who notices when we mutter over a greasy frying pan.

Doing the dishes is an act of service. It is not glamorous service, not the sort that earns you medals or even polite applause. But it is service nonetheless. Jesus knelt to wash the feet of his disciples — a menial, humble task — and told us to do likewise. I sometimes wonder if, in a modern retelling, it might be washing the supper dishes instead of washing the feet.

In my very first parish, I was blessed to serve alongside an amazing honorary assistant priest, Fr. Kent Gardiner — a man of deep humility and an incredible pastor. Each year at Vestry, someone would propose that since the parish held so many church suppers, we ought to install a commercial dishwasher in the kitchen. Kent would rise, clear his throat, and gently say, “I wouldn’t use the thing. Some of the best pastoral work I do is gathered with others in that kitchen, with our hands in soapy dishwater.” And he was as good as his word. After every church supper, there was Kent — apron on, sleeves rolled up — serving Christ and his community one plate and one pan at a time.

And here is the deeper truth: discipleship is not made up only of the grand gestures — those rare moments of heroic faith. It is also made up of countless small obediences, quiet acts of love repeated over and over. Like dishes, it never really ends. The Christian life is not one glorious triumph but a daily rhythm of choosing to serve, again and again.

So the next time you find yourself staring at a mountain of dishes, remember this: holiness may be hiding in the bubbles. The sink can become a sanctuary. And in the clatter of plates and the swish of the sponge, you just might hear the quiet voice of God saying, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

A Prayer

Gracious God, teach us to see you not only in the great and shining moments of life, but also in the small and ordinary tasks that fill our days. May we find holiness even at the kitchen sink, and in every act of service, may we reflect the love of Christ. Amen.